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Expanding
the Circle of Caring
Working with the Community to End
Domestic Violence
Domestic Violence is violence and
coercive behavior by one adult in
an intimate relationship over another.
It is NOT “marital conflict,”
“mutual abuse,” “a
lovers’ quarrel,” or a
private family matter.” It may
consist of repeated, severe beatings,
or more subtle abuse, including threats
and control. Ninety-five percent of
the victims are women, although men
may also be victims. Domestic violence
is a serious problem that needs to
be addressed by communities.
IF YOU ARE A VICTIM:
> Trust your instincts and seek
help
> Recognize that it is NOT your
fault
> Know that you are NOT alone and
help is available
> Talk to someone you trust
> Set up a safety plan
IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO IS BEING
ABUSED:
> Listen and believe
> Tell her it is not her fault
and not God’s will for her
> Let her know that, without intervention,
abuse often escalates
> Refer her to a domestic violence
shelter and help her find resources
> Hold the abuser accountable.
Don’t minimize his behavior
> If restoration is to occur, it
can be considered only if there is
intervention.
Interfaith Council’s Circle
of Caring Program offers education
on the cycles and patterns of domestic
violence and helps your congregation
learn ways to respond and to be involved.
Call 509-329-1410 to schedule a training.
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